Love-language Matcher
Rate how important each of these seven ways of giving and receiving affection is to each of you. Different doesn't mean incompatible — it usually just means learning to show up in a way that isn't automatically natural to you.
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About this tool
Most people have one or two of these that matter far more to them than the rest — the point isn't to match on every single one, but to notice which ones matter most to each of you, especially where there's a real gap. A low score on something your partner rates highly isn't a flaw in either of you; it's simply something to be a little more intentional about.